How to say 'How are you?' in Japanese: how to ask and what to answer

'How are you?' in Japanese is お元気ですか (o-genki desu ka), polite. Among friends, shorter: 元気? (genki?). Answer — 元気です (genki desu) 'I'm fine', まあまあです (māmā desu) 'so-so'. Important detail: Japanese people don't ask this question every day, but to someone they haven't seen in a while.

How to say 'How are you?' in Japanese: how to ask and what to answer

The Russian 'how are you' is a doorknob: you grab it to enter a conversation. The Japanese 元気ですか is more like a knock on the door after a long absence. Asking a colleague this every morning is like asking every day if they've been sick since yesterday.

How to ask 'how are you' in Japanese

From polite to friendly
JapaneseReadingTranslation
お元気ですかo-genki desu ka · o-genki desu kaHow are you feeling? How have you been? (polite, to someone you haven't seen in a while)
元気ですかgenki desu ka · genki desu kaHow are you? Are you okay? (neutral, without the polite お)
元気genki? · genki?How's it going? (very friendly, with a questioning intonation)
久しぶりですねhisashiburi desu ne · hisashiburi desu neLong time no see! (more often used instead of 'how are you' when meeting)
調子はどうですかchōshi wa dō desu ka · chōshi wa dō desu kaHow's it going? How are things progressing? (about matters, work, health after illness)

Why the お at the beginning changes everything

元気 means 'vigor, energy'. The prefix お is a polite bow towards the listener: you're not asking about abstract vigor, but about theirs. Therefore お元気ですか is appropriate with a teacher, neighbor, older colleague, while bare 元気? is for a classmate.

What to answer to 'how are you' in Japanese

JapaneseReadingTranslation
元気ですgenki desu · genki desuI'm fine, I'm okay
おかげさまでokagesama de · okagesama deThank you, thanks to you (polite formula; often fully: おかげさまで元気です)
まあまあですmāmā desu · māmā desuSo-so, average
大丈夫ですdaijōbu desu · daijōbu desuIt's fine, everything is okay
疲れましたtsukaremashita · tsukaremashitaI'm tired (honest answer to a tired colleague at the end of the day)

How to return the question to the other person

After answering, add あなたは? (anata wa?) — 'and you?'. In casual speech, the pronoun is often omitted and you just say ~は? with the name: 田中さんは? (Tanaka-san wa?) — 'and you, Tanaka-san?'.

How the Japanese 'how are you' differs from the Russian one

  • It's not a daily ritual. Every morning you say おはようございます to a colleague, not 'how are you'.
  • The question implies you haven't seen each other for a while — otherwise it sounds like you suspect the person is ill.
  • The default answer is positive: 元気です. A detailed story about problems in response to a polite formula is not expected.
  • In business correspondence, instead of 'how are you' they write お世話になっております (o-sewa ni natte orimasu) — 'thank you for your cooperation'.

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FAQ

How do you say 'how are you' in Japanese?
お元気ですか (o-genki desu ka) — polite, 元気ですか (genki desu ka) — neutral, 元気? (genki?) — friendly. Literally it means 'are you vigorous?', so the question is appropriate when meeting after a break, not every day.
What do you answer to 'o-genki desu ka'?
元気です (genki desu) — 'I'm fine'. More polite — おかげさまで元気です (okagesama de genki desu). If so-so — まあまあです (māmā desu). After answering, it's customary to return the question: あなたは? (anata wa?).
Can you ask 'how are you' every day?
No, it sounds strange. The daily greeting in Japan is おはようございます in the morning, こんにちは in the afternoon. 元気ですか is reserved for meeting after a long break, along with 久しぶりですね ('long time no see').
What does 元気 (genki) literally mean?
'Original energy': 元 — source, beginning, 気 — spirit, energy. Hence the meaning of the question: not 'what's new with you', but 'do you have strength'. The word 元気 also works as an adjective: 元気な子 — 'a lively, energetic child'.
How to ask 'how are you' to a friend informally?
元気? (genki?) with a questioning intonation or 調子はどう? (chōshi wa dō?) — 'how's it going?'. Young people often just say 最近どう? (saikin dō?) — 'what's new lately?'.

Updated: 2026-07-25

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